LGBTQ+

I was angrier than I expected to be, and it took time to understand why. Nothing dramatic happened. No blow-up. Just a careful, thoughtful message that sounded balanced and kind, while quietly shifting where responsibility landed. I realised my reaction wasn’t emotional insecurity, it was ethical alarm. I have ADHD and a highly responsive justice system. When responsibility moves toward the person who can cope, rather than the one causing disruption, my body notices first.

Curious about what really happens in a gay sauna? This brutally honest walkthrough follows one man's first visit to Greenhouse in Darlaston on Bear Day—from nervous anticipation to steamy encounters in the hot tub, steam room, and cinema. Packed with tips for first-timers, real gay sauna stories, and raw, explicit experiences, this post lays bare the truth about public sex, cruising, and anonymous connection in the UK gay sauna scene.

Off to Sitges Bear Week this Sunday—sun, sass, and shirtless smiles await. Third year running and still no plans to behave.

Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.

Bear Carnival 2025: 10 days of sun, sex, and shirtless chaos in Maspalomas. Book now or miss the filthiest fun of the year.

Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.