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During Sitges Bear Week, my partner and I ditched Grindr and dove headfirst into the darkroom at Bear Bar. What followed was a raw, filthy, and unexpectedly intimate group sex experience that blurred the line between exhibitionism and connection. From the sticky walls to the sling, to strangers joining in with perfect silent consent, it was more than just a hookup—it was a ritual. This is what public sex with trust, love, and a bit of sweat-soaked chaos really looks like.

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