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I went quiet deliberately. I watched someone I love get hurt by the person meant to love them most, and the truth didn’t arrive as a single moment but as gaps, stories, and details shared too casually to ignore. I knew what was happening. I also knew that if the truth came from me, it would only cause more harm. Silence cost me a friendship, but speaking would have cost even more.

ADHD justice sensitivity makes unfairness feel like a physical wound. I’m holding undeniable proof a friend’s partner is cheating, but saying anything risks gaslighting, rejection, and isolation. Staying silent burns. This post unpacks the mental loop, the science behind justice sensitivity, and what it costs to be the moral compass in someone else’s mess while your brain screams for action you can’t take.

Six months on GLP-1, I’m lighter than I’ve been in 11 years, the food noise is gone, and for the first time in my life, I feel proud.

Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.

Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.

Polyamory in a monogamous relationship: navigating love, boundaries, and sacrifices while staying true to yourself. Read our heartfelt guide

Losing a friend without closure is a slow heartache. It’s a journey of letting go, finding peace, and embracing the silence of moving on.

What to Do When Friends Don’t Prioritise You: Feeling ignored by a friend after they got a boyfriend? Learn how to handle disappearing frien

This blog started as a burst of ADHD-fueled curiosity, just another hobby I thought would soon end up in the hobby graveyard.

On July 5th, 2024, the Tories fell like Voldemort, ending a reign of dark policies and scandals. The UK celebrates its newfound freedom.