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When you know, but you can't say
Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.
Lee C
Apr 24 min read


Monkey Branching: The Relationship Jungle Gym No One Asked For
Monkey branching hurts. It’s cowardly, selfish, and leaves heartbreak behind. A harsh truth about people who won’t let go before swinging on
Lee C
Mar 244 min read


Being Hit by the Lust Truck: The 'Soul Mate' Connection
Explore the sparks of chemistry in relationships, from instant connections to deep intimacy. Discover the magic behind true attraction.
Lee C
Mar 224 min read


ADHD's Secret Social Superpower: Spotting the Bad Guy
ADHD gives us a built-in vibe detector—spotting red flags before anyone else. We may forget keys, but we won’t miss shady behaviour!
Lee C
Mar 65 min read


Unicorn Hunting: The Gay Edition
Unicorn hunting in gay polyamory—why it’s tricky, what goes wrong, and how to build a real triad without treating someone like an accessory.
Lee C
Feb 265 min read


Why Do Some People Have a Problem with They/Them, Non Binary Pronouns?
Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.
Lee C
Feb 63 min read


Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Jealousy in polyamory isn’t a failure—it’s just a feeling. The real question isn’t if it happens, but how you handle it when it does.
Lee C
Feb 53 min read


ADHD Hyperfocus: The Superpower That Destroys My Life
ADHD hyperfocus: the struggle of being glued to a task until 4 AM, missing meals, ignoring messages, and then wondering where the time went.
Lee C
Jan 304 min read


Three's Company, Not a Crowd: Let’s Talk Triads
Triads: more love, more chaos, and a Google Calendar obsession. Navigating love triangles is messy, but oh, so worth it when it works.
Lee C
Jan 245 min read


Poly in a Mono World: Navigating Love from Two Angles
Polyamory in a monogamous relationship: navigating love, boundaries, and sacrifices while staying true to yourself. Read our heartfelt guide
Lee C
Jan 134 min read
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