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The ADHD Problem With Peace: Why My Brain Loves Progress
After losing more than 13 stone, I thought maintenance would feel peaceful. Instead, it made me realise something uncomfortable about my ADHD brain. I was not addicted to losing weight. I was addicted to the feeling of progress.
Lee C
Jun 269 min read


When the Graph Stopped Moving
After losing more than 13 stone with the support of Mounjaro, I expected the hardest part to be over. Instead, I discovered an unexpected challenge. My ADHD brain had become hooked on progress, and maintenance felt strangely uncomfortable. This honest follow-up explores the psychology of long-term weight loss, the difference between chasing a goal and living with it, and why reaching your target weight is only the beginning of the journey.
Lee C
Jun 266 min read


A Quiet Death of a Friendship
We spoke every day. Now there’s silence. A quiet end to a friendship, choosing self respect over staying half in and slowly disappearing
Lee C
May 63 min read


The Unfair 'All or Nothing' Rule
Breaking up in a triad is messy—your ex is still dating your partner, always around, never letting you move on. Can it ever really work?
Lee C
Dec 5, 20255 min read


Monkey Branching: The Relationship Jungle Gym No One Asked For
Monkey branching hurts. It’s cowardly, selfish, and leaves heartbreak behind. A harsh truth about people who won’t let go before swinging on
Lee C
Mar 24, 20254 min read


Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Jealousy in polyamory isn’t a failure—it’s just a feeling. The real question isn’t if it happens, but how you handle it when it does.
Lee C
Feb 5, 20253 min read


ADHD Hyperfocus: The Superpower That Destroys My Life
ADHD hyperfocus: the struggle of being glued to a task until 4 AM, missing meals, ignoring messages, and then wondering where the time went.
Lee C
Jan 30, 20254 min read


You Aren’t Too Busy, You’re Being a Bad Friend
Too busy to text back or make plans? It's not about time; it's about priorities. Explore why flaky friendships hurt and how to move on.
Lee C
Jan 4, 20254 min read


A Heartfelt Goodbye: Wishing Well to Friends Who Move On
Losing a friend without closure is a slow heartache. It’s a journey of letting go, finding peace, and embracing the silence of moving on.
Lee C
Dec 22, 20248 min read


Supporting Your Partner During Their Breakup with Their Partner
Supporting your partner through their breakup while balancing your own needs isn’t easy, but empathy and communication are key.
Lee C
Nov 24, 20247 min read
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