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First Time at a Gay Sauna? Here’s Everything You Need to Know!
Dive into the cheeky world of gay saunas! Discover what to expect, sauna etiquette, and tips for a fun, safe experience.
Lee C
Oct 30, 20245 min read


BearScotFest and the Curse Edinburgh.
Experience BearScotFest in Edinburgh—bears, laughter, and unforgettable memories await at this vibrant celebration!
Lee C
Oct 8, 20244 min read


Unlocking Fun with Chastity
Explore Locktober in BDSM: thrills of chastity, public teasing, finding the right cage, and building trust. Dive into this wild journey!
Guest Writer
Sep 27, 20244 min read


Bear Carnival in Maspalomas
🔊 Audio Available for this post. Welcome, thrill-seekers! Experience the wild, liberating fun of Bear Carnival in Maspalomas!
Lee C
Sep 19, 20244 min read


XXL Birmingham
🔊 Audio Available for this post. Birmingham's XXL night is a thrilling, seedy adventure with darkroom delights and more...
Lee C
Sep 11, 20244 min read


A Weekend at Camp Wildfire: An Unforgettable Adventure
A fantastic blend of adventure and community, Camp Wildfire exceeded expectations.
Lee C
Sep 4, 20243 min read


Confessions of a Married Bi Bloke: How my Secret Affairs with Fellas Started
Infidelity’s a tricky subject, but when a fella’s sneakin' off for a roll in the hay with another lad...
Josh Bear
Sep 3, 20242 min read


Confessions of a Married Bi Bloke: a Wife and a Secret Life
Foreword: I’m excited to introduce our first guest post, written by my friend ‘Josh’ (who is using a pseudonym for reasons that will...
Josh Bear
Aug 2, 20243 min read


Polari - Vada your dolly old eek!
Explore the secret world of Polari: its history, vibrant use in LGBTQ+ culture, and cheeky phrases that still add sparkle to modern language
Lee C
Jul 19, 20243 min read


I Expected this Blog to end up in the Hobby Graveyard
This blog started as a burst of ADHD-fueled curiosity, just another hobby I thought would soon end up in the hobby graveyard.
Lee C
Jul 18, 20241 min read
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