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From Freddos to Freedom: 6 months on GLP-1
Six months on GLP-1, I’m lighter than I’ve been in 11 years, the food noise is gone, and for the first time in my life, I feel proud.
Lee C
Aug 204 min read


When Love Keeps Hurting: Recognising Trauma Bonds
He’s the kind of man who brings soup when you’re sick and memes when you’re spiralling. He deserves love that feels safe, not something he has to earn. But he’s stuck in a loop—waiting on silence, clinging to crumbs. This isn’t love. It’s survival. And when he’s ready to stop calling it love, I’ll be here. No judgment. Just soup. And bad memes.
Lee C
Aug 44 min read


When you know, but you can't say
Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.
Lee C
Apr 24 min read


Monkey Branching: The Relationship Jungle Gym No One Asked For
Monkey branching hurts. It’s cowardly, selfish, and leaves heartbreak behind. A harsh truth about people who won’t let go before swinging on
Lee C
Mar 244 min read


Why Do Some People Have a Problem with They/Them, Non Binary Pronouns?
Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.
Lee C
Feb 63 min read


Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Jealousy in polyamory isn’t a failure—it’s just a feeling. The real question isn’t if it happens, but how you handle it when it does.
Lee C
Feb 53 min read


Three's Company, Not a Crowd: Let’s Talk Triads
Triads: more love, more chaos, and a Google Calendar obsession. Navigating love triangles is messy, but oh, so worth it when it works.
Lee C
Jan 245 min read


Poly in a Mono World: Navigating Love from Two Angles
Polyamory in a monogamous relationship: navigating love, boundaries, and sacrifices while staying true to yourself. Read our heartfelt guide
Lee C
Jan 134 min read


You Aren’t Too Busy, You’re Being a Bad Friend
Too busy to text back or make plans? It's not about time; it's about priorities. Explore why flaky friendships hurt and how to move on.
Lee C
Jan 44 min read


A Heartfelt Goodbye: Wishing Well to Friends Who Move On
Losing a friend without closure is a slow heartache. It’s a journey of letting go, finding peace, and embracing the silence of moving on.
Lee C
Dec 22, 20248 min read
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