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The Unfair 'All or Nothing' Rule
Breaking up in a triad is messy—your ex is still dating your partner, always around, never letting you move on. Can it ever really work?
Lee C
Dec 5, 20255 min read


From Freddos to Freedom: 6 months on GLP-1
Six months on GLP-1, I’m lighter than I’ve been in 11 years, the food noise is gone, and for the first time in my life, I feel proud.
Lee C
Aug 20, 20254 min read


When Love Keeps Hurting: Recognising Trauma Bonds
He’s the kind of man who brings soup when you’re sick and memes when you’re spiralling. He deserves love that feels safe, not something he has to earn. But he’s stuck in a loop—waiting on silence, clinging to crumbs. This isn’t love. It’s survival. And when he’s ready to stop calling it love, I’ll be here. No judgment. Just soup. And bad memes.
Lee C
Aug 4, 20254 min read


When you know, but you can't say
Knowing someone’s cheating and staying silent isn’t loyalty—it’s emotional torture dressed up as protection. And it haunts you.
Lee C
Apr 2, 20254 min read


Monkey Branching: The Relationship Jungle Gym No One Asked For
Monkey branching hurts. It’s cowardly, selfish, and leaves heartbreak behind. A harsh truth about people who won’t let go before swinging on
Lee C
Mar 24, 20254 min read


Why Do Some People Have a Problem with They/Them, Non Binary Pronouns?
Dismissing they/them pronouns isn’t a debate—it’s ignorance. If you expect respect as a gay man, extend the same to non-binary people.
Lee C
Feb 6, 20253 min read


Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships
Jealousy in polyamory isn’t a failure—it’s just a feeling. The real question isn’t if it happens, but how you handle it when it does.
Lee C
Feb 5, 20253 min read


Three's Company, Not a Crowd: Let’s Talk Triads
Triads: more love, more chaos, and a Google Calendar obsession. Navigating love triangles is messy, but oh, so worth it when it works.
Lee C
Jan 24, 20255 min read


Poly in a Mono World: Navigating Love from Two Angles
Polyamory in a monogamous relationship: navigating love, boundaries, and sacrifices while staying true to yourself. Read our heartfelt guide
Lee C
Jan 13, 20254 min read


You Aren’t Too Busy, You’re Being a Bad Friend
Too busy to text back or make plans? It's not about time; it's about priorities. Explore why flaky friendships hurt and how to move on.
Lee C
Jan 4, 20254 min read
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