Camp Wildfire is the one weekend where I stop worrying about looking silly and let myself fully join in. I am usually shy, self-conscious and allergic to making a scene, but there I talk to strangers, dance, wear ridiculous outfits, hand out gifts and throw myself into things I would normally avoid. I feel seen, safe and celebrated, and after four years I have gone from sneering at the whole thing to booking both weekends for 2027.

Club Fuzzy launches in Nottingham on Saturday 8 August 2026 at Lord Roberts Prohibition Bar. This independent LGBTQ+ club night brings DJs BaldJoe, Mandy & Friends, drag from Miss Jazz Hot and a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere. FuzzyCub is proud to support a friend creating something new for the city. Tickets are £5 advance or £8 on the door.

We spoke every day. Now there’s silence. A quiet end to a friendship, choosing self respect over staying half in and slowly disappearing

ADHD justice sensitivity makes unfairness feel like a physical wound. I’m holding undeniable proof a friend’s partner is cheating, but saying anything risks gaslighting, rejection, and isolation. Staying silent burns. This post unpacks the mental loop, the science behind justice sensitivity, and what it costs to be the moral compass in someone else’s mess while your brain screams for action you can’t take.

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